The moment we open our eyes in this world we are surrounded
by entities called ‘People’. May they be our parents, our siblings,
cousins, friends, relatives, and teachers. Everyone is associated for with us
for a specific span and a specific motive.
Specific motive might seem a bit interrogative but yes it is
true, may it be a selfless or selfish it is only a motive that connects us to
the world. It is an umbilical cord that holds the child in the mother’s womb. Interestingly we come across different people
so leave a permanent mark in our life. It is very ironic to notice that some
people come in our lives for very short duration but the impact made by them on
our lives is huge.
Personally I am not a social being and enjoy comfort
interacting with only handful people. But still since my childhood I have
noticed that every person that comes in our life has a role to play. They come
during a particular phase where there role lies and vanish when the role is
over. That’s where the entire problem lies. However hard you try once their
role is over, they will not wait, not even for a second. Surprisingly, it happens
so naturally with a series of events rolling one after the other, it looks as
if nature is conspiring to take that persona away from us. That’s where all
emotions like depression, sadness, break up come into picture.
I know it is easy to say but hard to digest that if every
human understands that every individual that comes in to our lives has to go at
some point, some might stay for a longer period depending on how deep is their
role in our lives.
People come people go what remains with us is their memories
and experiences. The experiences may be good or bad, but again both create
problems. If we have good experiences we expect the same from others and
expectations lead to frustration and shattered feelings. If we have bad
experiences we feel afraid to trust the other person that comes in to our life.
That’s why it is good to remember a person in memories but limit only to that
don’t start looking others from the earlier one’s specks. It will not let you
move on in life.
I believe the moment we are born we are spinning a web
around us, the web is the people around, the more and more we are caught deeper
in the web the difficult it is to get out. It is good to have lot of people
around us but the only person that lasts from the moment you come till you go,
your entire journey is "YOU AND ONLY YOU".
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